In the dualistic universe of relativity there are two ways to look at love. First is the love based paradigm of love that comes from unity consciousness. Second is the fear-based paradigm of love that comes from a separation mentality. Love-based love is unconditional love. Fear-based love is conditional love.

The sad thing about it is because we are taught from birth to experience this fear-based paradigm of love, we not only embrace it, but we create it unconsciously in our own experiences of love. As we set our conditions and experience our fears, we know deep within ourselves that this fear-based concept of love cannot truly be the love that we wish to experience as pure.

It does not seem right to keep thinking 'I will love you ifâ'¦.' If you are a blonde. If you are rich. If you are pretty. If you let me take advantage of ...

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